Can a mother forget her child after she puts him or her up for adoption?

my file was been transferred from the archives to the computers to enter all the information about children and birth parents that wanted to reunite

nothing could ruin the day except foe one thing

I found out that I had been adopted at age one and that I had two half brothers thirteen and fourteen years older than me

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

all even years in fact when my world was turned upside own TWICE

my father in law died on the mothers parents anniversary

I did nit know what to do with myself

Sorry, Trump supporters, but eventually it will have to be asked: Why didn't Trump do as well in his first term as he is doing NOW?

there were several others that sort of beggar belief

I’m too scared to even contemplate if there is another connection there

the years past by quickly

Why are people with Asperger syndrome unenthusiastic?

the next day I was fine again

the shock was so great I had a complete breakdown

She died the next day and her death led to me connecting with my birth family when the death notice for Anne’s mom appeared just above the only two death notices for my half brother

What is one thing which you cannot stop however hard you try?

I found out that my birth mom had died eleven years before but the rest of the family apart from my dads side had been waiting 25 years to connect with me

my youngest daughter was born on the mothers birthday

the whole day I was in a state

How would you feel if your friend confided in you that she is cheating on her husband, knowing that he loves her deeply? What emotional and ethical considerations would you grapple with in response to her revelation?

Well I leave that for your to decide

it was our wedding anniversary and her mom was dying of emphazima and doctor had said it was hours not weeks or months that she woukd go so we were stressing she would go on our wedding aniversary

strange yes

At what point does trespassing become self defense? What are the necessary conditions for this line to be crossed from trespassing to self defense?

one - I would not tell my dad I knew (my mom had passed away four years before

I was Morose

co incidence's ???

In what ways Indian parents are destroying their children's life?

the search for your origions had just opened up so even if I had known before hand I would not have been able to look

to this day I regard this man as the scum of the earth for the way he had broken the news of my adoption

my dad hated that teddy bear and we never knew why

Kuorans, what are some things unique to your country?

after thirty four years I found out that I was adopted

strange as it may seem the day before Anne’s mom died my wife had a dream about Anne’s mom coming to her with a letter asking for forgiveness spabdvthat my wife go look for the son she gave up for adoption all those years before

We shared birthdays and deaths together with another couple

My landlord just sold the house I’m renting from her. She included all fixtures, that I bought and installed. Does she have this right?

this was not the first strange co incidence

I was depressed

the one man I trusted and looked upto very brutally told me I was adopted

What kind of book did you write after turning 55?

I talk from experience here

a very strange experience

when did he die lthecsameceay thst Anne’s mom died

sadly just got the bad news that my other half brother passed away last month

the only problem was I never knew why

my dad died and once again my world came to a CRASHING FLIP

but here is the clincher

I was closer to him in the last three months that he was still with us than I had ever been in the previous 34 years

however nothing came of it and four years later I finally succeeded in connecting with my birth family

two - I would not look for my birth family until my dad was gone

my had was spinning

I never suspected anything

I was crying

moulding my own thoughts into the story maybe

I knew it might cost me finding my birth family but my parents happiness was ore than breaking my dads heart

It fell off the trolly and instead of it been put back on the trolly it was put on the shelf judt as my application to look for my parents csmecinn

banging my head agaists the wall was a very viable option

A slip up by my aunt and the world I knew came crashing down

the shocker came when I found out that the same day my mom died was the same day I had been so distraught

one one fine day the sun was shining, the birds were chirping, it as a beautiful day

my dad died it was this couples wedding anniversary

but it was the manner my mom died that gives me pause for thought

I had kept my promise not to tell my dad I knew but now he was gone I could freely look

she burned to death

I found out my birth mothers name and the search was on

he threw the teddy bear away the day I got married

I some what think her last thoughts as her final moments were reached shecwascthinkingbof me and of the son she had given up all those years before

however because my parents had been so good to me I resolved two things

personally I think my mom did regret giving me up and always wondered what happened to me

the letter wasn’t from my mom but there was a letter from the matron from the home where I spent my first year after I was born saying that I was taking the teddy bear to my new home from my birth father